Why did I become an auntie?

Is there a greater gratification in life than spreading love?

Mystical are the ways in which we Indians choose to portray chastity in our society and yet be most victimized by it.

I often seek answers to find out why and how we became so narrow and judgemental about our history, our tradition that we are so proud of

After all these years of suppressing our emotions, frustration has build the wall so high… that the present generation is running away from it: no not the purpose of the wall; but our tradition!

With the next generation taking lead it is time we leave the hypocrisy behind us and be brave to face, not the world but, ourselves! I am glad I chose to be an ‘Auntie’ over everything else.

I think we deserve a fair chance, so just drop the ball, for once, it is important, to sort out our lives. ‘Love’ & ‘Peace’ is what we are all about and not the vice-versa.

We need to stop questioning our feelings. Rather just surrender to them, and the world will be beautiful, yet again, as it was, as it is supposed to be.

Sex: before marriage, after marriage; partner of the same gender; transgender at work, differently abled for education; LGBT matters: these are not issues, at all! These in-fact are the fundamental rights of expression of being human.

Why run after them? Let them be… free… free to exist as they are…

Our real worries should be to fight terrorism, corruption, poverty, illiteracy, bad infrastructure, rapes, and murders. Challenge yourself, your nation and its citizens for once to come together and fight the real demons.

StayUncle is empowering, revolutionizing, putting some sense into our being by reminding us that our goal has always been happiness, by letting us be ourselves and it shouldn’t get filtered by mind games of a few culprits.

It is really acceptable to us, in our hearts what ever choices our children as responsible adults make whether it is to be with a boy/girl, or to have an ideal partner of the same gender.

Please! Leave such cliches behind and worry about them being doing good work, and contributing to the society of all things.

As an Indian woman, I hate the false identities our girls have to create often, to be accepted by their families first and then the society.

Of all things, now, don’t expect them to stay behind the veil and be a puppet in man’s hand. They are coming out, stronger than ever breaking barriers and ruining definition of a ‘Good Girl’.

‘Stayuncle’ is the harbinger of that change which is coming slowly, but, when it reaches it will turn everything upside down. It will dismantle the hypocritical clones and hit you hard with reality! Or truly cuddle you with love…

Nidhi Auntie
Meet the author / Nidhi Auntie

I help couples tell and immortalize their StayUncle love stories. Live is too short to constantly think about places where mind and body can become one

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