Guys in the cinema hall gave loud cheer to this epic dialogue from Pyar ka punchnama because-by god, ladke ne dil ki baat bol di.

Poor guys, they work very hard to reach orgasm and thus ladies, they deserve to sleep.

But that doesn’t mean that you will leave your semi-aroused lady on her own. The thing is that, when she is not completely satisfied then boss baat to karegi !

Women like to make eye contact and stay close after the deed is done while men want to roll over and, literally or figuratively, light a cigarette.

I know that because my man does that too *crying my eyes out*. And when I asked him why doesn’t he like to cuddle a lot after sex then his innocent reply was-“You might not realize it, but you can be dead weight when you’re asleep, babe”.

Ahh, my poor baby! But, dear all I want to say is that- Mere 50 kilo k wajan ko apni chaati pe laad k sone ki zaroorat nhi hai, just lend me your ears when i need them the most.

Since women have no reproductive need to ejaculate, blood circulates longer in the genitals.

That means that they remain in a semi-aroused state and have the energy to cuddle, engage as well as interact for few minutes. I know most guys would rather turn over and hit the ZZZZ’s right after love making, but trying to stay awake to hear her talk about her day is recommended even it is for 5 minutes(We promise we won’t chat for long if you did good job :P)

Sex leaves us feeling vulnerable dude. Every woman wants to know that she is adored by the man she slept with.

A cuddle after sex should be lingering and sensual, not the kind of embrace that you would give to a team mate on the local football side, before running off to do something else on the daily itinerary.

When it comes to the moments following sex, there are three types of guys: “cuddlers,” “snorers,” and “up-and-outers.”

When their hearts are in the right place, most guys start out as cuddlers.

In the early stages of infatuation, a potent chemical cocktail is keeping him tuned in and turned on, and he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you -before, during, and after sex.

But today’s cuddler is tomorrow’s snorer, especially as he gets more comfy in a relationship, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In the end, you want a partner who’s comfortable with you.

But, then who is going to take her satisfaction’s responsibility?

Sex is a two way pleasurable ride guys, it’s not a humping game where you are rewarded for finishing up first.

Your lady might have had her orgasmic ride too but, she still needs you to touch her even after the ‘Great-wild-exercise’.

Touch her, rub her, hold her..and please talk to her if she needs! Well, she won’t be bitching about her new girlfriends or their rotten relationships and thus, at least you can pretend to hear sometimes if not doing it for real (mind you, I said sometimes only).

Although, she might reveal her purest side in that window of 5-10 minutes so, it’s an opportunity for all the dudes who keep complaining –yaar ye bandiyaan itni complicated kyun hoti hain?

Also, ladies need to know that guys are different from us not just because they have a penis but because they are completely different individual from head to toe.

If you wish them to understand your need, then be ready for some instant sleep-after-sex episodes. Rolling over and falling asleep after sex is more of a man’s natural state.

If your guy is falling asleep right after sex, cut him a little slack.

Try cuddling him, or ask him to hold you. But don’t try to engage him beyond some good solid spooning, and don’t take it personally when he falls asleep. Even though he slept early, he still loves you girl!

No doubt men and women are designed in different way but isn’t love all about going beyond your comfy zone to satisfy other?