" My boyfriend dumped me because I am not sexually experienced enough. He says he does not have the time to train a woman and this is a deal breaker for him. I am very depressed. What should I do???"
A serious question sent to me on my chat window - this girl needs some serious advice and uplifting guys!!
In a healthy relationship, sex matters. We can be all romantic and book-ish or we can accept reality and decide to work on it.
Experience is merely a matter of practice. Everyone has a little sexual beast inside waiting to be unleashed. That could be a reason more for this uncle to give her another chance. As for the girl, a bit of practice and study won't be a bad idea, there is tons of literature available on www.
First of nobody born as an expert. You need to learn everything and it takes time.
No need to be depressed. If he doesn't have time to teach you then just leave him, move on. There are lot of guys and she can have anyone she want.
Tell her no need to cry for such a man. Nobody is born expert. Everyone has to learn. She can learn it, she can be an expert and show him a middle finger.
I would like to help her in anything. Let me know if she need any help.
kya baat hai sirjeee! This is snapdragon auntie by the way 
Very valid reply. There is such pressure to perform these days for both men and women in the age of such exposure and social media that expectations have changed! I will ask the lady in question to go through the replies here. She was not comfortable asking this question herself.
@SnapDragon44.. What? Holy shit... you are female? And I was thinking u r male for my whole life 
hello
dont take it seriously.. nobody come in the world knowing everything.. did ur boy friend knew how to satisfy a women when he had his sex for the 1st time..
dont be uset dear.. its all a part of life.. u will have somebody better in your life to help u learn and also satisfy you and give u all the love and care you need..incase u interested u can also contact me , i am single too.. my email is [email protected]
Your boyfriend sucks, seriously. But the good news is - many men out there are not like him at all. I wouldn't recommend that you stay with this guy, since he doesn't seem to realise one fundamental fact - while inexperience can take time to rectify, not even an experienced person is good in bed for all their partners. Sex gets good only after you've been sleeping with someone long enough that both of you have reached a certain comfort level, and understanding of each other's minds and bodies!
As for your practical problem - do you want to get experienced or not? If you do, there are ways and ways - you could try casual, no strings attached sex with someone who's willing to show you the ropes. You could have a series of hookups, where you don't even have to tell the guys that you're inexperienced...you'll just be collecting more experience with each new guy.
Or you could do the sensible thing, dump this twit, and go out and get dating till you find someone who's mature and actually likes you enough that he wants you for who you are, more than what you bring to the bedroom.
Hello, sorry i dont know ur name, but yes your boyfrnd suck and he is not the correct person for u.. comming to the point i m too looking for a girl friend. I am from hyderabad, if u feeel u can reache me.on 7995517352
Stop calling him ur boyfriend For he always concentrated on a good sex... He never cared enough for u as to how u will feel Wen he will dump u for this stupid reason...
& second please enhance ur knowledge... Read some books watch a lot of porn... Date a dozen guys.. It will help u in regaining ur shattered confidence & in forgetting that asshole..
You will find urself happy & enlighten once u get ur confidence back... & if u r ready.. U can see so many ppl are willing here to jump on d opputunity (pun intended).. So relax kiddo u just need exposure & experience... & that comes with time & your induldgence to learn new things...
Wish u luck.. #mwaaahh