I think my gf is dating with someone else. What should I do?

[Gama-Ray]

Refusing to meet me as often as before, keeping her phone away from me and finally, a friend who told me he saw her in a mall.... How should I proceed ahead?

[SnapDragon44]

@Gama-Ray your friend saw her in a mall with who? Is it possible it could be just a friend? Refusing to meet you as often than before. hmm.. what reasons does she give? Keeping her phone away is absolutely normal, as a matter of fact, you do not own her and she is grown woman who deserves privacy if she wills it (as you do). First give me a little more information, then lets tell you how to deal with this.

[SnapDragon44]

In the meantime lets not jump to conclusion until you are sure about it. Would you mind if I ask you some more questions? How has your relationship been with her lately? How long you both been going out?

[Ramit]

Boss, be careful while jumping to conclusions. Make sure it is absolutely confirmed else you will just look like a possessive weirdo.

[Gama-Ray]

Asking her what were you doing today and she said I was at home all day.. Didn't mention going out or going out with someone.. It happened for second time

[HunterUncle]

@Gama-Ray - Are you so serious on her ?

[Gama-Ray]

What do you mean @HunterUncle

[HunterUncle]

Confront here and clear everything @Gama-Ray

[SnapDragon44]

There are 2 ways to do this Gamma Ray. First, i would suggest that you don't just her straightforward accuse her unless you have real evidence. Keep your dignity intact.
Second - if she is dating someone else, then you need to take a call, whether YOU want to pull the plug. If you decide to pull the plug, then tell her your reasons. If you want to wait around, do that till something precipitates. I will ask you again - are you in love with her? How deep is your relationship with her?

[HunterUncle]

Well explained @SnapDragon44 .

@Gama-Ray !