‘No’ means NO you dude. Get used to it!

Rejection is a part and parcel of life.

Many a times, even after rejection, some people just don’t get the message.

From stalking the girl online, to harassing her, and maligning her character, they leave no stone unturned.

How difficult can it be to understand that stalking or incessantly harassing a woman does not equals to winning her heart.

A no means a NO. Amitabh Bachchan in the movie “pink’ made it loud and clear in his heaviest voice, although did anyone gave a thought that why is that movie named “pink”?

Is it because a bunch of girls are in lead role? Or was it to show that pink is not just a color, it is unity to fight for injustice?

Actually, Pink is not just a color, it is a street slang too.

It means vagina bought with violence.

Hey bro, I will be getting some pink today…

Does color coding makes a statement less dirty? Then in that case dude, control your blue!!

But seriously why is it so hard for men to accept a woman’s no?

Their ego and self-confidence convince them that-“ladki ki naa main bhi haan hoti hai”.

Mind it guys, we girls don’t talk in code language.

So, stop being Sherlock and finding a different meaning to it.

Saying ‘No’ requires courage and awareness. We find it difficult to say no because we perceive it as a negative.

But look at it this way. When you say no to something, you are actually saying yes to something more meaningful; you are saying yes to yourself!

When you say ‘No’ to the demand of another “love making” session, you are actually respecting your own voice.

So, how good are you at saying ‘No’?

Or most importantly, how good are you at taking ‘No’?

If we speak up our denial, then are we ready to take one too!

We need to develop the art of accepting ‘No’ as it requires the equal amount of grace and confidence. It is not our heart or brain that needs to be trained, but it’s our monstrous ego which does… it feeds on ‘yes’ and is allergic to ‘No’.

This allergic reaction can turn a human into beast within fraction of seconds. So, next time make sure that you feed your ego with the balanced diet.

Dear ego-centric men,

This world is much more than your desires.

Kindly install that extra RAM of sensitiveness on your systems.

Fuck Darwin!! You robots, evolve back to being human again.

Start feeling more and coding less or else, build an app for bursting your over-grown ego. Stop replying her ‘No’ by spilling acid or raping her.

Stop being a ‘Mard’ and showing off the power of your blue because pink is backed by law to make sure that-“Mard ko bhi dard hota hai.

When a woman says ‘No’, it’s time for a man to stop and zip up his pants.

It’s as simple and as clear as that. I would rest my case by quoting Mr. Bachchan from pink-

“Na” sirf ek shabd nahi…apne aap men ek poora vakya hai..isse kisi tarakh, spashtikaran,explanation ya vyakhya ki zaroorat nahi hoti..na ka matlab na hi hota hai”.

— Image credit: India.com

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Heya, myself DIvya auntie, a Delhi based student tired of all the unreal shit out there about things called society.. I will be telling stories others shun away. Yours perhaps?

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